General Hangout

I guess there’s a realistic and unreasonable views of this topic. :thinking:

Assuming the other person’s interests aren’t similar, this could be a challenge. Not having the same interests could already be a disadvantage on many levels. However, this can be beneficial if the other person is open-minded and willing to satisfy their partner’s tastes. If they don’t, it’s an uphill battle to the end. :crossed_swords:

Otherwise, if they are having same interests and tastes, this could well be just right, to certain degree. Meaning, they can understand your likes, share time and space on this matter. A good thing right? :jinko_hehe:

The point I’m trying to make, is that idk whatsoever what’s better, but as long as both partners are willing to understand and work things out … getting to know your partner’s business is already a challenge as is. :liz_ilikeit:

I took my latest date to watch an anime movie, hasn’t gone past that. We’re both interested in Asian culture. She took Korean language and I did Japanese. She’s more into K-pop, I’m more into J-rock, we both like Asian cuisine and both are natural Spanish speakers. I’m aiding on her English skills. We don’t know each other nowhere near 5%, because we haven’t been able to get to that level of communication. :liz_bongo:

There was other woman who was more understanding of my music and tastes, despite not being hers. However, she was hopeful to return with her ex and she did. :liz_angry:

With my ex-fiance, it was “toxic” because are our tastes differ from the beginning. She only wanted to like my things to be more likable and involved with me. I did the same, but in the end, that didn’t work. Many reasons, but it shouldn’t be forced. Won’t go anywhere that way. :hearthunter_menace:

Probably, I’m blabbing too much, but I felt I had to let it out. Whoever likes, will accept you as you are. :v:t4:

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Given that this is Men’s Health Awareness Month, I feel like this could work as the an anthem for men. (Pay attention to the lyrics)

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Well for me I have a few items that I would like in my next partner

  1. She must except the fact that I’m a Celtic Pagan and it would be nice if she was also a pagan.

  2. No kids I don’t want to be raising someone else children’s, though I’m open to us having children.

  3. Must enjoy animals(this is a deal breaker for me)

  4. Must have similar music tasted that we listen to.

  5. Must enjoy going Renn Fair and Anima Conventions and enjoy watching anima.

  6. Must be a good listener and have good communication skills

  7. Must understand that I travel for my job and that I’m sometimes out on tour for 3-6 months and she can travel with me if she wants.

  8. Must have the same interest in the bedroom and or willing to try new things( One of the leading causes for couples breaking up is the lack the same interest in the bedrooom)

Well that pretty much covers it for me

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Happy Father’s Day everyone

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@somwhere STOP liking everything I post and engage for once LOL :joy: :joy: :joy:

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Shocked No Way GIF by mushroommovie

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It’s Somewhere’s daily check in. Typical 9:30 pm time as well.

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Don’t have anything, I am to Solo life now to readapt back into sharing a relationship. I am pretty much the lone grey wolf now and dating has lost alot of its luster to me. I don’t Judge anyone else for seeking or attempting but for me its just not in the cards

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But my friend @MageHeart that’s not the question: my question if your future partner would need to like/love anime or if that part is not necessary for you to be with someone. If you’re willing to be with someone who doesn’t like anime or the things that this anime community like . :v:t4:

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No I wouldnt has to at least have a favorite anime know about anime an it cant be dbz bleach one piece or trashruto

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naruto shippuden crying GIF
The trashruto hurts my heart, but understandable. Thanks for your input :face_holding_back_tears::pray:t4:

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Find me someone like this @Hestia25 :sob:

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So a girl who buys you game consoles :eyes::eyes::relieved::smiling_face:?

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Those are PC parts, especially that graphics card in the middle ohh I need one of those soon. My rtx 2080 ti is starting to kick the bucket :sob:

That’s my second worst addiction, collecting PC parts

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Sorry Hestia, I just dont flow with that anime at all we are still friends if you like it :people_hugging:

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Hestia, I have to side with Mage on the Naruto part. Not the biggest fan, it just didn’t do it for me. Give my my fantasy, monster girl, Isekai trash anyday!

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Absolutely we’re gonna be friends until you’ll not allowed it anymore :face_with_hand_over_mouth::smiling_face:

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Yeah, but those parts are not cheap :sweat_smile::eyes::eyes:

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“Naruto sucks. Definitely. Definitely.”

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I’ve had children. Your tears don’t work on me, @Hestia25 ! :grimacing::bear:

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